Worst 101 Myths About Male Sexuality: In this article I am going to tell you about the wrong beliefs you and most of the guys have about Male Sexuality and how do you get your sexual energy up? How do you actually look inside yourself and find What’s sexy about you?
Society tells you a lot of different things that you need to be or have to do, to be sexy. Like you need to be a CEO or you need to have a sports car. For now, I want to begin by talking about your internal mindset, so you as a male what is sex internally for you?
What has society taught you about sex and what Is your internal relationship with sex?
I want to ask you a question. How do you feel about your balls?
It’s a kind of a raunchy question but it also says a lot about your internal relationship with masculinity because a lot of man holds a lot of shame right here in his balls. They are afraid of their dick and balls because of the power they hold and they are ashamed of what’s sitting there, right between their legs. [Worst 101 Myths About Male Sexuality]
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So, starting from this very deep place, if you are ashamed about your dick and balls, using them sexually with a woman is not going to be easy.
Like for example, my friend Mark, he says that Men often grow up seeing the negative effect of masculinity all around them. They say things like war, violence, domination. But I don’t want to be a part of that. I’m a nice guy.
So, bullying can be one of the negative expressions of masculinity. And so, they grow up in this world where they are like, “well I don’t want to be that guy. I don’t want to bring that energy into the world and as a result of that I am putting a stop to that. I am going to suppress my masculine energy because I don’t want to be a dominating or violent bully.”
Aa a result of that, a lot of boys crush their internal power and they don’t see the positive effect of their masculine energy they can have. Like inspiration, like leadership, like standing up to a bully or like fighting for what you believe in.
So that really begins there- Are you ashamed to be a man? And how can we start to undo that mindset? You need to recognize that you actually have a huge power inside you. [Worst 101 Myths About Male Sexuality]
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One of the things I like to ask guys when I am coaching them is – What did you eat for breakfast today? And they say, “Some toast or like a paleo meal”. And then I say, “Well guess what? Right now, your stomach acids in your bowels are turning the same food and breaking them into little proteins, sending them down through your digestive system and down through your bloodstream, right into your balls and you are making sperm.”
Your body is actually a sperm factory and that is a huge source of power if you direct it in positive way. So, starting with that idea of sexual energy can be good.
I want to talk about some of my own experiences, when I was younger, with my own sexuality. So, when I was about 10 years old, the internet came our and like every other kid I went to google and I typed “big breast”. And it took about 15 minutes for a slowly pixelated image of a women to show up.
And then when I was about 17, I started to see girls and I started thinking that there was something wrong with my brain because I would look at a girl and I would think, ‘oh, I just want to jizz on her face, I just want to kiss her’ and I was like, there is something wrong with me. [Worst 101 Myths About Male Sexuality]
So, yeah. I grew up in that position and as a result of that, you know, being a nice guy, I didn’t want to be one of those main guys who like jizzes up in girl’s faces. I didn’t want to be that sleazy guy.
Here’s an idea- your fear of being sleazy or creepy guy actually stops you from being you. So, your fear of being a bad evil guy stops you from being a good, positive, powerful, tough guy. So, you are really letting these guys win because they are sharing their energy and you are hiding yours. And it stops you from giving a gift to the world. Its actually a huge shame.
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As a result of this, a lot of guys develop a nice guy tendency to prove, how much they are not these evil guys. So, they want to do favors for a girl. They want to open doors for it. They want to help her move houses. They want to be her shoulder to cry on. [Worst 101 Myths About Male Sexuality]
And as a result of that, this strategy is making them as much as an asshole. Its like seeing the women as a slot machine and they have got a big bag of nice guy coins and if they just put a certain amount of nice guy coins into the machine, then eventually she is going to be attracted to them. That’s a totally messed up way to think about human interaction and sexual exchange.
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Conclusion
So, what have we learned in this section? Masculine energy can be a force for good. Its your gift to share with the world and its your duty as a guy who respect women to share your energy to lead, by example, and to create a positive change.
Otherwise, you are letting all the assholes win. You know you are over here complaining about how I’m nice and women don’t give me what I want. Well, be the example of the guy that you want to see in the world and show women that a guy can be sexual and that he can be masculine, he can be dominant in a way that makes her feel safe and protected and that’s exciting for her. [Worst 101 Myths About Male Sexuality]
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