How To Win Your Ex Back After No Contact? 5 Best Ways: Don’t worry! I know what you are thinking right now. You are probably wondering that you have totally implicated the No Contact Rule successfully without a single flaw. But how to approach your ex after the two to three months brake that you had. In this article I am going to tell you exactly what you have to do to gain your ex back after no contact rule.
1.Build a right conscious
The most important thing that you need to have before you start to read this article is that you have a good conscious and not be too desperate to make contact with your ex. Believe me, as I have seen a lot of this cases and if you make the wrong move, it does not end in a good note.
If you are ready to have a good conscious, you can read further.
What you need to understand is that there are two types of people when it comes to relationship- one who is always afraid to make a move (out of fear) and the other who has an abundant mindset.
Now, the first type of people has a scarcity mindset towards love. They are afraid to take the right decisions and act out of fear because they believe that they will lose their partner if they make a wrong move. [How To Win Your Ex Back After No Contact?]
Believe me, fear is the worst thing when it comes to relationship. The fear of losing your loved ones. Fear ends relationship and if its something that is completely destroying relationship then I assure you its not something that will help you to regain your ex back.
So, what do we do about it?
Here’s what you need to do. You need to build an abundant mindset when it comes to relationship. You must not fear to lose what you have. The people who have an abundant mindset believe that is endless love and happiness in this universe and they know that they will not run out of love even if they make a wrong move.
Now, you should not mistake them from the one who goes on goes on breaking every heart they make attachment with. They are the one who are always welcoming and are looking for new people to love.
Now, it doesn’t mean that they are not afraid of having a breakup. They are too. They also fear but what they fear the most is making commitment.
When you are approaching your ex after no contact what you need to do is to delete your scarcity mindset and act with your abundant mindset. You must not give up on your fears. What you need to have is a clear conscious and be able to communicate with your partner properly and with honesty. Honesty is the key element when it comes to relationship.
Even if your ex reacts in a negative way after you make your first contact or probably not reply to your texts at all, you must not act according to your emotions. You need to keep hold of your emotions and not let them interfere with your actions.
You need to be honest and communicate effectively and the most important thing- “show love” to your partner. [How To Win Your Ex Back After No Contact?]
2. Need to have the right skillset
After building up a right mindset, what you need to have is a right skillset before approaching your ex.
Because there has to be a reason why you both broke up at the first place. It’s not like you are going to make the same mistakes (which led to your breakup) and you ex is going to handle it just fine this time.
Its like starting from the beginning. What you had before you broke up with your ex is now old. What you are going to build after no contact is completely a new relationship. And remember, you cannot make the same mistakes once again.
To avoid these old mistakes, you need to have the right set of tools and skills. Tools and skill like communication, self confidence and bringing up a right solution.
Every couple fight but those who communicate well can easily come up to a solution rather than the one that doesn’t. So, you need to build a good communication skill to create a great understanding.
Being confident is the best thing you can have while you are in a relationship. Your confidence will decide the course of your relationship. If you broke up with your ex, its probably because of your lack of confidence.
But the good thing here is that you can regain your confidence by simply believing in yourself and by accepting who you are. [How To Win Your Ex Back After No Contact?]
3. Don’t hesitate to make the first move
A lot of relationship ends only because of the fear of contacting their exes after applying no contact. Your ex will not come back to you if you don’t make the first move.
You are probably thinking that it will make you look weak and stupid, make it look like you are chasing him. If you are thinking this then move back to the top of the article and read the first and second points again.
If you think after doing this you will no longer have control over your ex, then I hate to tell you are wrong on this one. Think again. [How To Win Your Ex Back After No Contact?]
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4. Build the connection as soon as possible
After you make the first move, you will notice that you ex is acting quite different than usual. Why wont she? You two already had a break up and she probably knows it is not a good idea to talk to your ex after a breakup.
She will have her defences all up against you. She too doesn’t want things to end like the last time. But she will have a soft spot for you and that “soft spot” is the one that you need to melt.
After the first move, try to make contact with her daily, through texts or calls, because this is only going to keep the fire burning between you two. If a situation ever comes to address about the past relationship you both had, don’t try to ignore it.
Handle the situation by showing empathy and with a warm gesture. I have covered the most of it in the next paragraph.
5. Be ready to have important conversation
After you have built a proper connection and things are back to normal, your ex will start to show signs of love towards you. But they will also have doubts in their minds about getting back together.
This is where you come in with your communication skills and address those same doubts that she had in her head for clarity.
Remember, many of you make the mistakes of avoiding serious conversations or trying to ignore it whenever it shows up. This will only make things more complicated.
Your partner will realise that you haven’t changed a bit and that the new relationship isn’t going to last any longer than the previous one.
Your action of ignoring serious talks with your ex is an act of being afraid. Afraid of losing your ex. And like I said before, fear is not going to bring you guys back to normal. Instead of acting out of fear, you must act out love. You need to show that you have empathy and an understanding of the situation while communicating with your ex. [How To Win Your Ex Back After No Contact?]
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How to have serious conversation with your ex?
Many of you make the mistake of talking your way through to get back together with your ex. Remember, if you bring up your desire of wanting to get back together, every now and then, while taking to your ex then this will have a negative impression on her.
If you rush into getting in a relationship, it will only look like you are trying to change yourself just to be in a relationship with her.
And this will only make things worse. She will put up her defences against you and all the hard work that you did to get back together with your ex will totally go to waste.
What you need to do in this situation is that- you need to bring in the reasons you both broke up in the first place and convey a solution towards the issue. Let her know that things are going to be different this time.
You don’t say about getting back together. Even if you want to get back together you need to say that “it’s not a good idea to rush into things.” And that what you want the most is a healthy relationship. Try to convey your emotions and make it sound like you mean it. [How To Win Your Ex Back After No Contact?]
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Final Thoughts On How To Win Your Ex Back After No Contact
Remember if you want to win your ex back after no contact, you need to follow these five steps sincerely. Otherwise, you won’t get your expected result. I have seen many doing the exact things I told but screwing it on the first point, which is- having a right mindset.
Follow these east steps and I guarantee you; you will get back with your ex in no time. Make sure to check my other articles as well. [How To Win Your Ex Back After No Contact?}
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